Monday, August 11, 2014


There's no doubt that the past few months have been hard. I have found that I have been hard on myself too. I get upset when I upset someone and was told today that I am needy. 

A friend gave me an article on what it means to be emotionally secure. Obviously from the article I am not. My family members are emotionally secure but I am not.  I need to work on that. Do you get upset when people prey on your flaws?


  1. Absolutely because I want to be perfect to everyone. Don't you? It's impossible but that's hard for me to realize or accept.

  2. First of all you need to not be so hard on yourself. The person who told you that you are needy was not in the least being kind. You've gone through a very rough few months and you are still grieving. I think that the steps you have made, cleaning things out, buying small treats, doing yoga and spending time at your synagogue are all steps towards healing. Each day you are moving towards a calmer place. I know that yoga and being close to your faith are healing wonders. Continue to be gentle with yourself. We are all a little broken and for that matter, needy xoxo

  3. I don't think that the gals who made the negative comment or gave you the article were being nice!

    Keep up the good work - positive grieving, keeping busy and going to the synangogue. Hang in there, time completely heals wounds. Trust me, I know. I will keep you in my prayers... and the other gals, too!

    All the best!



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